The 4-6 year olds must do List

All the most fun activities for 4-6 year olds

I don’t want to look up one day and realize I missed out on the fun parts of parenting young children, but with the chaos that often is part of this time I also need our activities to be simple and I need them to work. This is why, with help from my readers, I made this list of the activities that are most fun for kids in about the four to six year age range – to let us focus on doing the things together that we’ll really love at this age.

The Must Do list for 4, 5 and 6 year olds is filled with simple ideas about how to make the most of your time with your young children.

The lovely part about reading all of these is it really does make you excited about the things that you can do with your kindergarten aged kid. This is exactly what we need sometimes – to be re-energized about the FUN parts.

Like the Toddler Years Must Do List, this is not meant to be a guilt list, just an inspiration list to help us remember what we love about this age.


How to teach kids: Learn the best teaching methods and techniques

While many people find teaching children to be rewarding, some will tell you that it’s just plain stressful at times.  What are the best ways to teach kids?  Do the methods and techniques vary across subject manner?  For example, would you use the same approach to teach a child how to tie their shoes as you would how to do multiplication tables?  Probably not.  That being said though, there is no fool-proof way on how to teach kids.  The good news is there are several methods and techniques you can use.  Children are versatile.  Before you dedicate yourself to a teaching method, figure out how the kids learn best.  From there, you can choose teaching methods and techniques that are right for them.  You will be surprised how fast they can learn something once you teach to their learning style.

There are 7 primary learning styles:

Visual (Spatial) – These individuals learn best through pictures, images, and spatial understanding

Aural (Auditory) – These individuals learn best through sound and music


Raising Successful Children

PHRASES like “tiger mom” and “helicopter parent” have made their way into everyday language. But does overparenting hurt, or help?

While parents who are clearly and embarrassingly inappropriate come in for ridicule, many of us find ourselves drawn to the idea that with just a bit more parental elbow grease, we might turn out children with great talents and assured futures. Is there really anything wrong with a kind of “overparenting lite”?

Parental involvement has a long and rich history of being studied. Decades of studies, many of them by Diana Baumrind, a clinical and developmental psychologist at the University of California, Berkeley, have found that the optimal parent is one who is involved and responsive, who sets high expectations but respects her child’s autonomy. These “authoritative parents” appear to hit the sweet spot of parental involvement and generally raise children who do better academically, psychologically and socially than children whose parents are either permissive and less involved, or controlling and more involved. Why is this particular parenting style so successful, and what does it tell us about overparenting?


Power of Music Therapy!

Did you know that Music therapy has the power to facilitate communication skills, self- expression and motor functions, asks Geetha Bhat.

Albert Einstein is recognised as one of the smartest men to have ever lived. A little known fact about Einstein is that when he was young, he did extremely poorly in school. His grade school teachers told his parents to take him out of school because he was “too stupid to learn” and it was thought to be a huge waste of resources for the school to invest time and energy in his education.

His mother, who did not believe her son was “stupid”, bought him a violin instead and Albert became good at the violin. Music helped him become one of the smartest men. Einstein himself has said that the reason he was so smart was because he played the violin. He loved the music of Mozart and Bach the most. A friend of Einstein, G J Withrow, said that the way Einstein figured out his problems and equations was by improvising on the violin.

Children, primarily learn by hearing, seeing, doing, thinking, experimenting, moving or any combination of the above. The same ways of learning are incorporated through music and arts by the usage of hands, feet, eyes, ears and the mouth while learning to play a musical instrument or as in vocal or dance. Learning to play an instrument involves the entire brain and helps in its total development and organisation by utilisation of all the senses.The result is that the child retains information and can transfer learning to other subjects.

Music and arts-based education is a win-win situation because a child involved in music or the arts, increases his/her ability to learn and understand other subjects. Learning an art form not only allows the child to develop his/her intelligence that lies within him/her, but also allows the child to express his/her uniqueness as a person, thereby displaying strong inner confidence and a sense of self-worth. Research has proved that the relationship between a musical activity and the brain benefits by stimulating motor therapy, speech and language therapy, pain management, and cognitive rehabilitation in areas such as memory, executive function and attention. Music therapy has the power to facilitate communication skills, self-expression, fine and gross motor functioning and bring about various other positive changes in individuals with development delays and learning disabilities , Alzheimer’s disease, traumatic brain injury, relaxation to the terminal ill patients, etc.

One of the big breakthroughs in education came in the early 1980s. The work of psychologist Howard Gardner gave educators and parents a greater understanding about intelligence and how children learn. In his book, Frames of Mind, he introduced his theory of multiple intelligences. Until Gardner’s research, educators believed that children were born with a fixed intelligence that is measured through an IQ test. But Gardner proved that there could be many ways to be intelligent.

He identified seven different areas of intelligence and said that these seven areas develop at different times and to different degrees in different individuals. He later identified an eighth intelligence of the naturalist and today, we have within us capabilities of all eight types of intelligence.

But the bad news is that schools reward only two types of intelligence identified by Gardner — verbal/linguistic, logical/mathematical. The other areas are equally important and these include musical, bodily/kinesthetic, visual/spatial, interpersonal and intrapersonal, but are not necessarily acknowledged by most schools. The good news is that musical intelligence is so powerful that by learning a musical instrument or studying the arts, the other seven types of intelligence can be developed at the same time.

Value in music education

If we are to make a strong case for music education, we cannot do so merely by focusing on its cultural value to civilisation.

We must begin to use the information we have of the cognitive sciences. We need to carry on research on the academic achievement of music students and make that information broadly available to all those engaged in educational planning and practice. We must note the results of music education on the development of higher order thinking skills, including analysis, synthesis, logic, and creativity; improved concentration and lengthened attention spans; improved memory and retention; and improved interpersonal skills and abilities to work with others in collaborative ways.

And then we can discuss the joy of learning that comes from listening to and making music.

Perhaps it seems too simplistic to think that by merely adding music and arts to the curriculum, schools will turn out students ready to accept and meet the challenges of the workplace. But when you truly consider the information gained through scientific studies on brain development, one can note this simple idea provides the method by which the complex process of developing optimal brain function can be achieved.